2311: Surviving Sexual Molestation

Wednesday, June 23, 2004
1:00pm – 2:30pm
Presenter: John B. Warnick

PRESENTATION DESCRIPTION

What is it like to live with the shame and guilt of being the male victim of a sexual crime perpetrated by an adult you trusted and admired? What emotional scars haunt you when you dare tell no one that this adult everyone idolizes as the best youth soccer coach and an outstanding role model for young boys has stripped you of your innocence? When that buried secret stops you from attaining a lifelong goal and leads you to professional help, how do you deal with the frightening truth that unless you inform the police this sexual predator will harm more innocent boys? What gives you the courage to not only share the truth with the district attorney, police and FBI, but to also willingly participate in a unique "sting" operation that will crack a nationwide child porn internet network? How do you deal with the fact your privacy is lost in a swirl of newspaper headlines and sensational TV highlights? "Surviving Sexual Molestation" is the odyssey of John Warnick’s heroic but difficult trek to the satisfying peace of helping others overcome the plague of sexual assault.

PRESENTER BIO
John B. Warnick was born March 12, 1979 in Casper, Wyoming, the only son and second child of two lawyers, John A. and Carol Warnick. As John grew from an active toddler to an energetic young boy, he excelled at swimming and tennis lessons, T-ball, and eventually youth soccer. By the time he turned eleven, John was carrying a secret he didn’t share with anyone; he had been sexually molested by a soccer coach he idolized and trusted. For the next nine years, John would bury that secret.

During that time, he won the State History Day Competition five out of six times, and finished as high as fourth at the national level. His senior year, he and his doubles partner went the entire season undefeated only to suffer the disappointment of losing in the championship round at the state tennis tournament. Despite his successes, John could never shake the secret that haunted him until he found the courage and faith to seek and confront the molester.

Today, John shares with law enforcement agencies, school administrators, youth counselors, and concerned adults the incredible story of how his decision to go to the police and district attorney, led him to participate in a sting operation that attacked a nationwide child porn network. When he isn’t speaking or playing hockey, John is pursuing an electrical engineering degree at Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah. John was recently married to the love of his life, Amy, in August 2002. They continue to enjoy a happy and successful marriage.
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